Steven Preston

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Own Your Data – Your Online Identity A case for the decentralized indie web

Our voices are important. They deserve to be heard, and they deserve their own website.

Many of us have been burned by corporate-owned social media at some point. I myself have had posts removed by Facebook, even though the link I shared came from a legitimate news website and the comment I made along with it was not directed at a specific person, they still claimed it was against their community standards.

In any case, it's now 2025 and our online content and identities are more vulnerable and more important than ever. Some would argue, even critical to our very lives.

At a time when our personal identities are no longer safe in the hands of the government, and the content that we create are insecure and likely to be sold, or stolen, in the hands of mega corporate-owned platforms. We need to be the owners of our identities and our creations Our data. I really don't want to be an alarmist, but our Free Speech rights and private data are currently under attack by our very own president, but that's a story that deserves it's own post.

Why shouldn't I use Facebook, X, Threads or other social platforms?

You can if you want! But remember, when you create on corporate-owned social media you are the product. Otherwise you are consenting to the fact that they control who sees your thoughts. They control what you can write about. They control how you write and the pictures you share. Have you ever had your post removed by Facebook? It feels like a punch in the gut.

When you control your own website, your thoughts aren't subject to the politics and policies of it's mega-billionaire owner. I'm looking at Zuck and Musk.

If you're in business as a professional artist, it's vital to be in control of your relationship with your audience, clients, gallerists and customers. I know this from my 10 years in marketing and 6 years that I ran my own coffee roasting business. A website is a big part of that control.

As an individual, you also have an equally important reason for not giving away your control over your data and the content your create, and how you share it. When you do, that gives them influence and control over you that shouldn't belong to them. But that's exactly what you're doing when you put content on their sites.

You should be in control of how you represent yourself, your art, your ideas, your religion, your politics, or any other aspect of your identity that you want to share publicly.

Here's a short list of things to do to start taking ownership of your data.

  1. Get a personal domain and Email
  2. Find website hosting you can afford

I said it was short.

Get your own personal domain to use as your primary online identity.

Hosting: Your website needs a place to live.

Web hosting does cost a little but in my experience, it's worth the price. I code my own site and host it on Neocities.org. Neocities does have a free terr, but I pay $5/month for expanded storage and use of my own domain name. Otherwise I'd have go with their subdomain, like www.stevenpreston.neocities.org instead of my actual domain www.stevenpreston.im, I like my domain much better, and I'm proud to share it, plus the extra data storage is nice to!

Full Disclosure: A Website Is A Commitment

Professional artist Gwenn Seemel, who left Meta in 2019, explains in her blog post, > “...a site can lend your work that professional feel, but with one caveat: it must be maintained regularly. If you don’t know how to upkeep it yourself, the site will look as out-of-date as it is, so it’s a good idea to hold off on building your home on the web until you’re ready for that commitment. That said, compared to all the learning and relearning of FB and IG you have to do every time His Zuckiness decides to make a change, picking up a bit of HTML is really not that complicated.”

Personally, I find her story inspirational as I just left Meta this year. My takeaway on this is we can be a successful artists, bloggers, or general internet enthusiasts without corporate-owned social media dominating our online existence.

Building a website from scratch is not for everyone and can be challenging. If the idea of coding freaks you out don't worry, you can still have your own site on something like Wix or other platform that has pre-built templates and a drag-and-drop system for you to add your content. However, when you go that route, the cost is also much higher and has many other negatives such as less control over site design, theme, and structure. But, it's still better than not having your own site!

Owning A Website Builds Authority

Having and using your own domain name and a matching email is important, especially if you use business cards or other printed promotional media, or communicate with clients or potential customers via email. Gmail or Yahoo email services are fine if your not a professional. I always have a tough time taking people seriously who use Gmail for their business communications. My email is my first name at my domain name so it matches my website. Try it out, I'll reply and you can also see my email signature that links back to my website. Don't worry, I wont spam you.

Start With A Simple One-Page-Website

At the very least you should have a one-page website like this that covers the basics of who you are, what you do, and how to contact you. This is the front door to your online identity and it is the first step in owning your data. Also once your website is setup, you will feel more confident and motivated to share your URL instead of just your corporate-owned social media profile.

Publish on your Own Site first, then Syndicate Elsewhere This practice is referred to as POSSE.

By practicing POSSE, you can publish your content anywhere, and across any social media of your choice with the benefit of a personal permanent link back to the original content on your own site. This builds your authority and reputational currency. You're allowing those that read your content on those platforms to continue seeing what you have to say all while retaining ownership and control of your content on your own website.

Add Info About Yourself

Your personal home page should include your basic information.

Since your site is still new, you are not yet publishing any content on your own site, You are on your way to owning your data and this helps with providing authorship information when you do publish and link back to your home page. These are small but important steps to declaring your independence from corporate-owned social media platforms like FB, Insta, X, Threads, etc.

Additionally by linking from your personal website to your existing social media, then linking your social media profiles to your personal website helps set you up as an authority and establishes your online identity.

So stake your claim on the web and set up an identity that you own and control.

Optional Bonus Steps

Move old social media content to your personal website

Give your new website some content to share by downloading your data from your old/current social media platforms and re-post it on your website in the form of blogs or articles, even if they're short.

Once you are posting on your own site and POSSE'ing out the content back to social media sites, you now have permalinks back to your website, further building your online identity and authority.

Cheers, Steven


Looking for an about me page? Visit my website StevenPreston.im

Sources: IndieWeb.com GetBlogging.org Gwenn Seemal's website

If you're like me, you're not a professional blogger, writer, author, public figure or industry professional that has a need for a strong online presence and a platform with all the bells and whistles, then Write.as might be the right solution for you.

Here's how I see things.

  1. Sign up in easy and painless. Write.as has a free option (I'm writing this post on) that gets you going, for all practical purposes, instantly. It took me less than two minutes to sign up and start writing my first post.

  2. Did I say if was free? As a non-professional writer I don't have disposable income to spend on a platform who's main goal is to separate me from my money. But I still want an easy-to-use system that looks good and functions as advertised.

  3. Your goal is to write, not gain followers. Sure we all want someone to validate our thoughts and feelings on subjects we care about, that's human nature. If that's your goal, just use social media. Writing a blog is about stating your case without the concerns of “what will people say?”. Who cares. Write what you want and opinions of others be damned.

  4. You have your own website but want a blog to connected to it. This was really my primary motivation for choosing write.as. A few months back I built my own website stevenpreston.im on Neocities.org for a couple reasons. I wanted a place for my art to live online. I wanted that space to belong to me without worrying about the platform shutting down or going out of business, or more importantly, turning Toxic-Nazi like X and Facebook did. And for the record, I canceled my accounts on both of those platforms a few months ago to. And, I wanted a blog on my website. During my website build, I learned how difficult (and time-consuming) it is to write and maintain a blog on a hand-build static website. Write.as fills the void quite nicely.

  5. Simplicity is key to focus on your words. The Write.as writing interface is great for it's minimalist approach to a workspace keeping you focused on “putting words down on paper”. That's why your here, to write, right?

This post is for me as much as it if for you. For some reason my subconscious brain is still trying to convince me that I've made the right decision to use write.as for my primary blog platform and writing this post helps put that feeling to rest.

The long and short is, it's free. Try it out like I'm doing and if you don't like it, just delete it and keep searching for something that works for you.

I hope this helps.

Cheers, Steven

PS— Disclaimer: I was not compensated for this post. I do not work for and am not affiliated with Write.as in any way. I'm just a user, I like the platform and wanted to make a post about it. (I really hate that I felt the need to put this stupid disclaimer here, but that's the world we live in now. Maybe I'll write a post about it.)


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Here we go again

Here I go again, trying another blog platform. I just discovered write.as recently. I've been on the search for a minimalist interface for a while now. I've always got bogged down with the others and their monetization mindset, constantly pushing you to make money and market blog. ugh! I'm so tired of that shit I could puke. It's still early, but so far I think write.as and it's focus on writing and not much else, might have some sticking power for me.

So, lets try it out. A little chatter by me about a song I like.

There were so many great bands, and equally great songs in the 1980s, today's music simply can't compare. I will die on that hill, so don't even try me.

One of my favorite songs by one of the best bands of the 80s. The lyrics of this song resonate with me on so many levels and touches on many influences of my formative years.

Cover art of Witesnake's 1982 album Saints & Sinners Album Cover: Saints & Sinners


Song Lyrics Here I Go Again by Whitesnake ‧ 1982

No I don't know where I'm going But, I sure know where I've been Hanging on the promises In songs of yesterday And I've made up my mind I ain't wasting no more time

Though I keep searching for an answer I never seem to find what I'm looking for Oh Lord, I pray, you give me strength to carry on 'Cause I know what it means To walk along the lonely street of dreams

And here I go again on my own Going down the only road I've ever known Like a drifter I was born to walk alone And I've made up my mind I ain't wasting no more time

I'm just another heart in need of rescue Waiting on love's sweet charity And I'm gonna hold on For the rest of my days 'Cause I know what it means To walk along the lonely street of dreams

And here I go again on my own Going down the only road I've ever known Like a drifter I was born to walk alone And I've made up my mind I ain't wasting no more time

But, here I go again Here I go again Here I go again Ooh baby, oh yeah

And I've made up my mind, oh baby I ain't wasting no more time

And here I go again on my own Going down the only road I've ever known Like a drifter I was born to walk alone 'Cause I know what it means To walk along the lonely street of dreams

And here I go again on my own Going down the only road I've ever known

I'm not sure what else to say at this point so I'll just end this post by saying it's over.

Cheers, Steven


Looking for an About Me page? Visit my website: stevenpreston.im